Proud military family navigates motorcycle crash recovery

Jerome and Suzanne Spaulding stayed at the Fisher House after their son Adrian was injured in an accident off base. Adrian was based at Andrews Air Force when he was injured in a motorcycle crash. His parents came to his side to help keep him on the right path through recovery.

When Jerome Spaulding got a call after midnight from his son Adrian, an airman at Andrews Air Force Base, he knew it was an emergency. Before they could talk, the call abruptly ended, and Jerome lay in bed wondering what happened to his son. The next call was not from Adrian, but from a nurse at the hospital encouraging Adrian's parents to quickly head to the hospital. Adrian's mother, Suzanne, said she's glad they only had to drive from New Jersey.

"We walked in there and, ‘Okay, he's alive,’ is the first thing you thought," Suzanne said.

Adrian had suffered a catastrophic motorcycle accident.

Jerome and Suzanne quickly booked a hotel close to the hospital, but Air Force patient advocates soon reminded them Fisher House provides service members and their families with a place to stay. Both Adrian’s parents wanted to stay focused on his mental health by reminding him to stay positive. In their view, a positive mindset would help him forge ahead in the next chapter.

" We'd go to the hospital, we'd see him, and you kept putting that in his mind. Everything's going to be okay," Jerome said.

They stayed at Joint Base Andrews Fisher House where they spent mornings in the kitchen making coffee and breakfast before heading to Adrian’s appointments, often reflecting on meaningful moments and memories as a child. Suzanne says he always had a love for athletics, as well as airplanes and aeronautics, as a kid. He joined the Air Force after high school, a familiar career to the Spaulding family.

Jerome, his father, spent 22 years in the Army, including time as a drill sergeant. He warned Adrian that life would not be easy.

At the end of each day in the hospital, his parents looked forward to heading “home.” The Fisher House provided a place to unwind and relax, while also allowing them a safe place to stay close to their son.

"We'd come home... back to the Fisher House after seeing him for the evening and say... let's go home. Let's go home."

When Adrian underwent surgery, the days were long and stressful, but his family knew they had the feeling of home at Fisher House.

 "To our surprise and amazement, it was more than what we could have ever asked for. Comfort. Peace. Security, direction, and friendship for those that you've met."  

Adrian was left paralyzed in his left arm after his accident but quickly learned new skills. In his spare time, Adrian is a highly ranked video game player and streamer despite working the controller with one hand and his mouth. Recently, he also competed in adaptive sports with Team Air Force at Warrior Games. His parents, once again by his side, cheered him on as part of the Family and Friends Program sponsored by Fisher House.